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Listen: Dolly Parton Offers Rare Details About Love Story With Late Husband

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Dolly Parton shared a rare insight into her 60-year relationship with husband Carl Dean just a few months before his passing.

Parton, 79, confirmed on Monday evening (March 3) that sheā€™s mourning the loss of her beloved husband, who died in Nashville, Tennessee. He was 82. Dean, who kept his life private over the decades as Parton became a globally-beloved star, will be laid to rest in a private ceremony with immediate family in attendance, per Partonā€™s statement.

Just a few months before losing her husband, Parton spoke about the coupleā€™s love story with Bunnie Xo on an episode of Dumb Blonde, a podcast named with inspiration from the ā€œI Will Always Love Youā€ singer. Parton said in the podcast episode that made its debut in December a boyfriend was ā€œthe last thingā€ on her mind when she moved to Nashville to pursue her dreams of becoming a country artist.

ā€œI left two boyfriends back home that had wanted to marry me, and I kept saying, ā€˜no, Iā€™m gonna move to Nashville.ā€™ ā€¦I thought, ā€˜well, the last thing I want is a boyfriend.ā€™ Iā€™m leaving two boyfriends here, and I kept saying ā€˜no, Iā€™m going to Nashville,ā€™ā€ the East Tennessee-born singer-songwriter said. ā€œAnd so, I got here, and I thought, ā€˜thatā€™s the last thing Iā€™m gonna get caught up with some boy,ā€™ you know, until I get my feet on the ground (and) get things going. And the very day I got to Nashville, I met Carl Dean.Ā And 60 years later, Iā€™m still with Carl Dean. Weā€™ve been together 60 years, weā€™ve been married 58.ā€

Parton and Dean met outside the Wishy Washy Laundromat in Nashville. They got married in a ā€œsimpleā€ and ā€œprivateā€ Georgia wedding on May 30, 1966.

ā€œHeā€™s a good guy. Heā€™s quiet and Iā€™m loud. Weā€™re funny ā€” oh, heā€™s hilarious ā€” and I think one of the things thatā€™s made it last so long through the years, we love each other. We respect each other. But we have a lot of fun,ā€ Parton continued on Dumb Blonde. ā€œAny time things get too ā€” too much tension going on, either one of us can find a joke about it to where itā€™ll break the tension. ā€¦We never fought back and forth. And Iā€™m glad now that we never did because once you start that, that becomes a lifetime thing. Iā€™ve seen it in so many people. And I thought, ā€˜I will never start that.ā€™ I couldnā€™t bear to think that heā€™d say something I couldnā€™t take. It would hurt because Iā€™m a very sensitive person, toward other people and myself.ā€

Bunnie Xo asked Parton whatā€™s the most important, yet overlooked, aspect of her years-long relationship with her husband?

ā€œHe was a homebody, and that worked well for us. ā€¦He loved to go places if we were gonna drive across the country or if we had planned anything, but boy, he never could wait to get home. He wanted to be around home, and Iā€™m a gypsy by nature. I just love to go and love to see what else is out there,ā€ Parton said. ā€œHe loves music, but heā€™s not the least bit interested in being in it. he told me that right up front. I begged him to go with me in ā€™67, we got married in ā€™66, so thatā€™s when I got my first award for BMI Song of the Year. And I rented him a tux and begged him to go, and we did. Oh, he was so uncomfortable. ā€¦He said, ā€˜look, now I want you to do everything you want to do, and I wish you the best. But donā€™t ever ask me to go to another one of these damn things because I ainā€™t going.ā€™ And he never did! So, we just kind of have that respect, and I respected that because I didnā€™t know he was going to be that uneasy. But he doesnā€™t even like to go out to big dinners and anything like that. So, even on anniversaries and stuff like that, we really stay home and make something specialā€¦or go to McDonaldā€™s, or go somewhere we want to go thatā€™s comfortable. We will go to Mexican restaurants. He will go in, sit in a booth and do that. He loves that. ā€¦But anyway, heā€™s just special to me, and I just love him like he is.

ā€œHeā€™s good. Everybody loves Carl.ā€

Though Parton shared some heartfelt insights into her decades-long relationship with Dean, she still opted to respect his privacy. When asked whether thereā€™s anything the world doesnā€™t already know about her husband, Parton said, ā€œhe donā€™t want me to tell the world nothinā€™ about Carl.ā€ Find the full podcast here.

ā€œCarl and I spent many wonderful years together,ā€ Parton said in a statement when she announced her husbandā€™s passing on Monday evening. ā€œWords canā€™t do justice to the love we shared for over 60 years. Thank you for your prayers and sympathy.ā€


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