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Dolly Parton shared a rare insight into her 60-year relationship with husband Carl Dean just a few months before his passing.
Parton, 79, confirmed on Monday evening (March 3) that sheās mourning the loss of her beloved husband, who died in Nashville, Tennessee. He was 82. Dean, who kept his life private over the decades as Parton became a globally-beloved star, will be laid to rest in a private ceremony with immediate family in attendance, per Partonās statement.
Just a few months before losing her husband, Parton spoke about the coupleās love story with Bunnie Xo on an episode of Dumb Blonde, a podcast named with inspiration from the āI Will Always Love Youā singer. Parton said in the podcast episode that made its debut in December a boyfriend was āthe last thingā on her mind when she moved to Nashville to pursue her dreams of becoming a country artist.
āI left two boyfriends back home that had wanted to marry me, and I kept saying, āno, Iām gonna move to Nashville.ā ā¦I thought, āwell, the last thing I want is a boyfriend.ā Iām leaving two boyfriends here, and I kept saying āno, Iām going to Nashville,āā the East Tennessee-born singer-songwriter said. āAnd so, I got here, and I thought, āthatās the last thing Iām gonna get caught up with some boy,ā you know, until I get my feet on the ground (and) get things going. And the very day I got to Nashville, I met Carl Dean.Ā And 60 years later, Iām still with Carl Dean. Weāve been together 60 years, weāve been married 58.ā
Parton and Dean met outside the Wishy Washy Laundromat in Nashville. They got married in a āsimpleā and āprivateā Georgia wedding on May 30, 1966.
āHeās a good guy. Heās quiet and Iām loud. Weāre funny ā oh, heās hilarious ā and I think one of the things thatās made it last so long through the years, we love each other. We respect each other. But we have a lot of fun,ā Parton continued on Dumb Blonde. āAny time things get too ā too much tension going on, either one of us can find a joke about it to where itāll break the tension. ā¦We never fought back and forth. And Iām glad now that we never did because once you start that, that becomes a lifetime thing. Iāve seen it in so many people. And I thought, āI will never start that.ā I couldnāt bear to think that heād say something I couldnāt take. It would hurt because Iām a very sensitive person, toward other people and myself.ā
Bunnie Xo asked Parton whatās the most important, yet overlooked, aspect of her years-long relationship with her husband?
āHe was a homebody, and that worked well for us. ā¦He loved to go places if we were gonna drive across the country or if we had planned anything, but boy, he never could wait to get home. He wanted to be around home, and Iām a gypsy by nature. I just love to go and love to see what else is out there,ā Parton said. āHe loves music, but heās not the least bit interested in being in it. he told me that right up front. I begged him to go with me in ā67, we got married in ā66, so thatās when I got my first award for BMI Song of the Year. And I rented him a tux and begged him to go, and we did. Oh, he was so uncomfortable. ā¦He said, ālook, now I want you to do everything you want to do, and I wish you the best. But donāt ever ask me to go to another one of these damn things because I aināt going.ā And he never did! So, we just kind of have that respect, and I respected that because I didnāt know he was going to be that uneasy. But he doesnāt even like to go out to big dinners and anything like that. So, even on anniversaries and stuff like that, we really stay home and make something specialā¦or go to McDonaldās, or go somewhere we want to go thatās comfortable. We will go to Mexican restaurants. He will go in, sit in a booth and do that. He loves that. ā¦But anyway, heās just special to me, and I just love him like he is.
āHeās good. Everybody loves Carl.ā
Though Parton shared some heartfelt insights into her decades-long relationship with Dean, she still opted to respect his privacy. When asked whether thereās anything the world doesnāt already know about her husband, Parton said, āhe donāt want me to tell the world nothinā about Carl.ā Find the full podcast here.
āCarl and I spent many wonderful years together,ā Parton said in a statement when she announced her husbandās passing on Monday evening. āWords canāt do justice to the love we shared for over 60 years. Thank you for your prayers and sympathy.ā